Self-Love Books

In Love With Me – The 10 Steps to Self-Love and Relationship Success

By Shannon R. Rios, MS L.M.F.T.

“The journey of falling in love with yourself begins with you.”

Falling in love with yourself begins and ends with you. It is a journey of becoming happy with yourself, where you do not seek to find happiness in others, but you learn to access happiness from a place deep inside.

“I looked in the mirror as if it were the first time, and I saw the beautiful, brilliant person I truly am. I deeply love myself just as I am. I am so grateful I gave myself this gift.”

In this book you learn foundational skills to build deep self-love. Your entire life will shift in mysterious ways. By the time you finish, your life will have moved forward in ways you could not have imagined. Take time to love you so you can create the life of your dreams. You deserve it.

If you want to achieve any of the following in your life, read this book:

  • Create healthy and happy relationships with current/future partners and children.
  • Attract and accept healthy relationships into your life.
  • Achieve higher performance in any area.
  • Experience more joy each day.
  • Uncover and bring forth your purpose in the world.
  • Develop greater inner peace.
  • Peacefully leave this world at the end of your life, knowing your work and love is complete.

I invite you to join me in this inner voyage of deep love. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I know, I have lived this very journey.

Self love is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, your children, and the world.

I ask you now:

Do you truly want, at this poin in your life, to fall in love with you?

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Divorce and Parenting Books

The 7 Fatal Mistakes Divorced and Separated Parents Make: Strategies for Raising Healthy Children of Divorce and Conflict

By Shannon R. Rios, MS L.M.F.T.

This book allows you to uncover how to best love you and love your child through this sometimes difficult transition of divorce or separation. If you are thinking about divorce or going through divorce this book will absolutely assist you in being the best parent possible for your child. This book is also excellent for any parent, married or not married, especially if you have any type of conflict in your relationship with your coparent.

This book is a crucial resource for families that are divorced, separated, considering divorce and never married who want to raise the healthiest children possible. Written by a child of divorce and conflict who is now a therapist working in this field, this book is a must-read. It provides guidelines to allow co-parents to create the best environment possible during family challenges.

Inside you will find over 30 exercises and practical strategies to assist you in being the best parent possible during this difficult time for your family. Reading this book will assist parents in raising emotionally and physically healthy children. If you love your child, this book is crucial for you to read. It will assist you in minimizing the impact of your circumstances on your child. You deserve to read this book and your child deserves a parent that reads this book.

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255 Pages with Diagrams and Bibliography. Paperback, Electronic or Kindle Versions Available.

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• This book allows you to uncover how to best love you and love your child through this sometimes difficult transition of divorce or separation.
• If you are thinking about divorce or going through divorce this book will absolutely assist you in being the best parent possible for your child.
• Highly acclaimed by other parents, therapists and family law attorneys (click to see testimonials)
• Learn the crucial strategies to raise healthy children of divorce /conflict/ separation
• Raise emotionally and physically healthy children
• 30 Exercises – Practical strategies other parents found invaluable
• Written by a child of divorce who now is a children/family therapist who has worked with 1000s of families of divorce/conflict over the last 12 years.
• Crucial resource for your family
• This book is a must-read if you are divorced, co-parenting or considering divorce
• Important and helpful chapter on dating and children – questions to ask yourself before dating
• Individual chapters available in ebooks – get the ones you need immediately! (click here)
• Extensive chapter on Telling the Children and detailed outline for this conversation.
• Includes many resources including Parent’s Promise and Co-parenting Job Description.

“I would get this as early as possible in the divorce process” Todd, parent

“This book was a Godsend, it has helped me be the best mom for my son through this process.” Katy, mother of a 7 year-old

“This book offers very clear, concise insight into the challenges of raising a child with a co-parent. It offered me some great strategies to improve my parenting and provide a healthy environment for my child. I strongly recommend this book to anyone in a co-parenting situation and who is wants to raise emotionally healthy children.” Phillip Hilgert, Father

“I am just finishing a divorce, and Shannon’s book helped to avert the worst fallout for all involved. She had identified the situation for our children 100%, and the book changed not only the way the children were parented during the divorce, but the way they will be from now on. This book is the best preparation on becoming a co-parent, it lets you see a lot of what will happen from the children’s point of view. I would get it early in the divorce process to give you the best preparation!”  Todd Kurshner, Father

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Healthy Children of Divorce in 10 Simple Steps: Minimize the Effects of Divorce on Your Children

By Shannon R. Rios, MS L.M.F.T.

Read this Book to Raise Healthy Children of Divorce

  • Do you worry that your divorce will have a negative impact on your child’s life?
  • Are you and your child’s other parent locked in a cycle of resentment and dysfunction?
  • Do you want to do everything in your power to create a healthy future life for you and your child?
  • Do you want solutions you can implement immediately?

Inside This Book is a Life-Changing 10-Step Simple Process
That Will Assist You to:

  • Make the best choices for your children to ensure their long-term health
  • Partner with your co-parent for the sake of your children
  • Take actions that will protect your children during this time
  • Communicate productively with your co-parent
  • Release the past so you can create a love-filled future with your children

This easy-to-read book will provide you with all of these answers and more.
It includes actionable steps/exercises to ensure the best outcome for your children.

Praise for the Author’s Best-Selling Book The 7 Fatal Mistakes Divorced and Separated Parents Make: Strategies for Raising Healthy Children of Divorce and Conflict:

“This book is a must-read for parents contemplating divorce, those already in the divorce process, and those who have a parenting plan in place.”

– Albert V. Evans, Family Law Attorney

“This wonderful book should be required reading and writing for every divorced or never-married parent.”

– Dr. Shirley Thomas, Psychologist and Author

Shannon Rios Paulsen, MS LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has specialized in families of divorce and conflict since 2003 (www.healthychildrenofdivorce.com). During this time, she has successfully assisted hundreds of families of divorce to create healthy environments for their children. Through her experience growing up in a family of high conflict and divorce, she knew there was a better way for our children.  She is also the author of In Love With Me:  The 10 Steps for Self-Love and Successful Relationships (www.inlovewithme.com).

She is also the author of Manifesting Baby: The Mother’s 30 Day Fertility Journal and coaches women whose dream is to become mothers later in life (www.manifestingbaby.com).  Ms. Rios Paulsen lives in the mountains of Colorado with her husband and daughter.